I cannot contemplate settling down with a woman, i would not consider for JUST based on her looks alone?

There's a difference between settling, settling down, and choosing a partner. Plenty of people feel lonely and desperate, and settle on the first body that comes along. Quite a few people are pressured to settle down, whether they are ready or not, like kids or not, or are capable of the responsibility or not. A few of us, pick a partner to spend our time with, without settling or falling into a stifling marriage or mindlessly having kids like everyone else.